Posted by John Concrane on June 21, 2019 in Lifestyle
Self confidence is extremely imortant in this 2019 world full of speed and stress. It’s true what they say: breakfast really is the most important meal of the day. But, why? Well, you need to energy if you want to tackle the ambitious goals that you’ve set for yourself, so a balanced breakfast should always be part of your morning routine. I always like to think of my body like I think about a car. If I noticed that I was almost out of gas before I set off from home, I’d rush to the nearest gas station to fill up my tank. Without gas, my car won’t be able to continue moving forward. And it’s the exact same with my body – I need to put in the right amount of fuel (food) so that I can continue moving forward as an entrepreneur.
Sometimes the best way to have a productive morning is to get a head start on it the night before. Many productivity experts and successful people spend their evenings preparing for the next day because it makes their mornings free to get an early start on important work. American Express CEO Kenneth Chenault ends his evenings by writing down three things he wants to accomplish the next day. Planning the evening before is effective because we have a limited amount of willpower and decision-making ability every day. The thought of making too many decisions in the morning will slow you down and drain your brain for the rest of the day. If you can eliminate decision-making from your mornings, you’ll have more energy and time to have the most productive morning you can!
Getting into work mode directly may often leave you with a cluttered mind. You’d be struggling to determine what task needs to be accomplished first and what could be left for later. Your mind functions at it’s optimum early on in the day. You process information quicker as you start off with a clean slate and hence make better and more informed decisions. So it’s better you plan your day in the morning and get your priorities right. This would save a lot of time and help you channelize your efforts in the right direction. Once you make it a habit to have this morning routine, it will be a 2-minute job. See extra info on Mindfulness.
Get rid of clothes that make you feel bad. If your closet makes you feel bad about yourself whenever you open it, it’s time to do something about that: Throw out clothes that are too tight, don’t fit or that you wear to cover up or blend in. Be ruthless! And reserve your closet space for pieces that make you happy from now on. Need advice on how to detox your closet? Here you go. Rewrite your inner monologue. Pay attention to the things you say to yourself all-day in your head. Do you talk to yourself with respect and compassion, like you do with your closest friends? Or can you be a real bully? Notice what negative phrases you repeat all the time and train yourself to replace them with more positive and respectful self-talk. Expand your fashion comfort zone piece by piece. Think of your comfort zone as a muscle. You can train yourself to become more confident when it comes to fashion, by taking baby steps. Pair a single bolder piece with your basics for example, or wear a toned-down version of your goal look for a while. Take it step by step, until your comfort zone is big enough to cover all of the colors, silhouettes and looks that you love – no matter how daring they seem to you right now. For more tips on how to expand your comfort zone, check out this post.
Since we’re all living particularly busy lifestyles, having a place where you can stop for a second, take a deep breath and relax becomes almost mandatory. It’s important to remember that, aside from taking care of your physical well-being, you should pay close attention to your mental well-being as well. Even though exercises such as yoga and meditation can help truly put our minds at ease, if the environment you are surrounded with on a daily basis is hectic, these exercises won’t make a real difference. Therefore, in order to truly be abler to practice mindfulness, you should rethink your home’s design and see if there’s any room for improvement.
Commit to implementing your self-care routine while allowing yourself to play around with how you implement it. There are some days that will be easier to practice self-care and others that it might seem impossible. Things will get in the way and that’s an inevitable part of life. When this happens, it’s important to let go of the reigns a bit. Don’t be too hard on yourself and remember that every day is a fresh start to get back to it. Your self-care routine won’t be perfect. See more details on Well-designed life.